Perfection. That is all we think of when we see another person on social media. We always see people for what they post, which is  their best hair days, no skin blemishes, and the trendiest outfits. Every girl has a “picture perfect” life on social media. And every girl is guilty of being jealous or envious of another person because of this false reality that we create. I’m here to tell you that this is so so untrue! I have people that will Direct Message me saying how perfect my life is and how they would want to be in my shoes, but this is so opposite of how it should be! I can tell you one thing for sure, I do not know a single person in my life that has not through some kind of struggle or life shattering challenge including myself! Even some of my closest friends that have such good lives, have deep problems that are so so hard for any person to go through! When I was very young my parents got divorced and I have had such ugly times from that up till I got adopted by my step dad only a couple years ago. My family and I still go through struggles every day from that and will always be a little bit different, but those are the kind of things that make a person strong and unique! Some of the kindest people I know have had some of the hardest lives! EVERYONE goes through trials and has to figure out how to cope with it and how to grow to be a better person. It’s not our place to judge how perfect someone’s life is, and how they deal with their personal trials. I’ve definitely learned that there will always be someone prettier than you. There will always be someone stronger or better than you in someway, but you have to learn how to love yourself, or you will never accomplish anything. The only way you can reach your full potential is by figuring out who YOU are, and working on yourself to be a nicer, happier, and more spiritual version of yourself. Figure out what makes you different, and thrive on that! God sees you as perfect, and that’s all that matters! Next time you see a beautiful girl and think to yourself that you will never be as good as her, just remind yourself how amazing YOU are and all of the crazy hard things you have been through or accomplished! You are a bad A! Hit me up anytime if you ever need a reminder of that! Live up your life, and know that you are enough. Anyone can make their lives look like a dollhouse.

XoXo, Ella