Hugs and kisses. Seems like the only things that matter to teenage boys… Don’t get me wrong! Boys are my very favorite people. Let’s be honest, girls are so drama and boys just want to have a good time. But sometimes having a “good time” means them making out with a girl, having contests with their friends to see who can kiss the most girls, or how many girls they can kiss with their eskimo brothers! Isn’t that accurate? Ya, that part of boys is definitely NOT my favorite. One thing that I keep myself to a very high standard with is kissing. I have never kissed a boy ever. Yep that’s right, virgin lips! 😉 There is a very good reason why. Boys want one thing with a girl, and one thing only. Tap. When I kiss a boy, it will be a boy that doesn’t like me only to kiss me. He will be a boy that would like me for my personality. A boy that cares about my feelings and interests. He will ask me questions to get to know me. One of the main things I like is when boys are protective. If they hear things that other people say about me they would stand up for me and they would be upset if someone hurt my feelings. All of these things are things that boys as teenagers are not very capable of it seems… but they would be worth waiting for:)  Until I find a boy like this, I will remain virgin lipped. I have a little trick for girls if they are trying to decide if a boy is worth liking, besides all of the other obvious things. If you are wondering if he really truly likes you and doesn’t want to just kiss you, then tell them that you aren’t kissing a boy until you are 16. See who sticks around after that! LOL. But it’s so funny how true it is. I have used this strategy on many boys, and it always ends different for every single one. Some boys just stop talking then and there. Lots have said, “Okay then I guess I’ll pick you up on your 16th birthday to kiss…” haha.  There are many different scenarios, but all of them end the same way that you think they will. With the boy disappointing you. So girls. Be careful the next time you think you like a boy, and always be thinking. Does he only want me for tap? And if you do kiss him, will his interest last?

XoXo, Ella

Fall Fashion.

OK. Summer officially ended last week. I have to hold back tears every time, but who doesn’t?!  Sooo, I think of my favorite things about fall to get me pumped!!! – Starbucks pumpkin frap, FOOTBALL, hot cocoa & hot tub nights, canyon drives to see the leaves turning, and haunted houses…  Aaaand, let’s talk about fall fashion! (One of the best things about fall!) I love a good excuse to dress in over sized sweaters and leggings every day. And I love wearing skirts! They are comfy and pretty much look cute with any top you own & I always dress it up with a necklace or a choker. Free People  has some of my all time fav skirts for fall! Also one of the best things you can do when you are having a bad week is to get up in the morning, make yourself some hot cocoa, and throw on some knee high socks and boots/booties. I know that always makes me feel better anyway 😉 . Braids and high ponies are awesome in the fall. Wanna know what else is awesome?! When you burn your neck with a curling iron & then you wear you hair up and guys ask you all day who gave you a hickey. Yep, that was definitely the best! At least make sure that you always have a yummy smelling fall perfume on you at all times when you hug boys at school. 😉 Bath & Body Works always has the very best scents in the fall that will make you fall in love with the season, and hopefully make the boys fall in love with you too!

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XoXo, Ella Claire

That’s Not My Name.

Have you heard the song “That’s Not My Name”? Gigi Hadid sang this song on the Lip Sync Battle, and it’s totally relatable to girls. If you look up the lyrics to this song, it explains exactly how I feel about boys calling girls nicknames. I like it when boys use MY name a lot. I don’t like it when a boy calls me “girl”, or “chick”… actually “hey girl” reminds me of Ryan Gosling, so I guess that ones okay if you look like him;). What drives me crazy is when a guy calls you a nickname that you don’t go by. I never go by the name “Elle”, and it makes me go nuts when boys call me that. Some guys call you “babe”, and it usually works unless you figure out that he’s calling ten other girls “babe” at the same time. Everyone likes to be told that they are hot, but sometimes I feel like if a guy only thinks I’m hot, then he’s only trying to get tap. You can never go wrong telling a girl that she’s beautiful or gorgeous. A guy texted me and told me that I was the most beautiful girl in the world, and it seriously melted my heart. Way more than it would if a guy said I was hot. So guys, here’s my tip: remember to use a girls name a lot when you are talking to her, and girls LOVE compliments.

XoXo -Ella

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